Our Programs
OUR PROGRAMS
Love, Respect, and Value Her (LRVH) Cotillion
The Love, Respect, and Value Her (LRVH) Cotillion is a culturally framed development program and celebratory event designed to help middle school youth, both Kings and Queens, embrace their identity, build emotional intelligence, and develop life skills rooted in self-worth and social responsibility.
This modern cotillion experience honors tradition while equipping participants with 21st-century tools to lead with grace, purpose, and power. Over the course of 12 weeks, participants engage in workshops that promote etiquette, leadership, community impact, and cultural identity and pride, all culminating in a signature Cotillion Presentation Ball.
Core Workshop Themes Include:
- Social Graces & Etiquette
- Self-Worth & Identity Formation
- Public Speaking & Presentation Skills
Program Highlights
- Designed for both Kings and Queens at the middle school age level
- 12-week development journey with age-appropriate curriculum
- Final Cotillion Presentation Ball, where participants are formally presented to the community in a celebration of their growth and accomplishments
- Dance Choreography led by Lori Lindsey, creating a joyful, confidence-building experience on and off the dance floor
2025 Cotillion Sponsors
We’re grateful for the generous support of our partners:
- Commission on Black Girls
- Discover Financial Services
- Meijer
- Oakwood Management
- Price Moving Co.
- Scottwood Elementary School
Why It Matters
The program aims to expose Black and Brown youth to a world beyond their neighborhoods, breaking down barriers, challenging societal norms, and empowering them to navigate life with confidence and grace. In a society that often marginalizes their potential, LRVH creates a space where they are honored, uplifted, and equipped to lead.
It’s more than a program, it’s a rite of passage, a celebration of identity, and a launching pad for future success.
Registration Details
Registration for the 2025 Cotillion opens in November 2025
Victory In Self-Awareness (VISA)
Victory In Self-Awareness (VISA) is a trauma-informed, school-based program designed to support the social-emotional development of adolescent girls in grades 6th, 7th/8th, and 9th.
Rooted in identity exploration, emotional regulation, and life skills, VISA equips girls to thrive academically, socially, and emotionally, within and beyond the classroom.
Delivered in 1-hour sessions over 10 weeks, each VISA module focuses on a series of critical topics, including:
- Identity & Conflict Resolution
- Mental Health & Resiliency
- Goal Setting & Purpose
Participants receive a VISA Reward Card at the beginning of each module. Girls earn points for attendance, active participation, and project completion, reinforcing positive behavior and personal accountability in an encouraging environment.
Program Objectives
- To empower and educate female adolescents in making healthy and positive choice regarding their bodies.
- To deter middle and high school students from engaging in behaviors or decisions that may negatively impact their futures.
- To intentionally address the needs of girls who are often misunderstood or underserved within the academic setting and broader society.
Featured Workshops Include:
● Go Girl Get Green – Focused on Financial Literacy, Budgeting, and Goal Setting, with support from Kemba Financial Credit Union (2025)
● Archery Program – Designed to improve focus, mental resiliency, and confidence, while introducing girls to non-traditional sports
● Culinary Arts – Encouraging creativity, team collaboration, and practical life skills in the kitchen
Availability & Cost
- Cost: Free of charge to students
- Fall Session: September – November
- Winter Session: January – March
Bring VICTORY IN SELF-AWARENESS to Your School or Community
Interested in enrolling students, becoming a program site, or learning more about how VISA can support girls in your school or organization?
contact us via email: wjlminc@gmail.com
TESTIMONIAL
“This program changed the way I saw myself. I learned to speak up, set goals, and stop doubting what I can do.”
— Former VISA Participant, 8th Grade
Girls of Destiny Summer Camp
We provide children and teens with a place they can call their own in our constantly changing world, where they become part of a supportive and encouraging community, and where they learn not only their rights and responsibilities but also how to appreciate and respect the rights of others.
Girls of Destiny is a diverse community of campers and staff from different backgrounds, working, playing, and learning together. We challenge each other to try new things, enjoy favorite activities, grow in confidence and a sense of accomplishment, and build strong friendships that last a lifetime.
A vibrant leadership and enrichment experience designed for girls ages 9-14. Hosted each summer, the camp nurtures social-emotional learning, self-awareness, and leadership development in a supportive, culturally responsive environment.
Our camp fosters personal growth by combining engaging workshops, peer connections, and powerful mentoring relationships that help girls build confidence, explore new interests, and grow into the leaders they are destined to become.
Featured Workshops Include:
- Go Girl Get Green – Focused on Financial Literacy, Budgeting, and Goal Setting, with support from Kemba Financial Credit Union (2025)
- Archery Program – Designed to improve focus, mental resiliency, and confidence, while introducing girls to non-traditional sports
- Culinary Arts – Encouraging creativity, team collaboration, and practical life skills in the kitchen
- A team of trained Senior Camp Counselors and Volunteers supports all aspects of programming and care.
Program Leadership & Key Partners
- Danielle Dallis-Hairston, Program Director
- Tomica Livingston, Program Coordinator
- Genesis Shine, Personal Development & Life Coach (Senior Camp Counselor)
- Sophia Jackson, Returning Coach, Life Skills & Mentorship





Class Schedule is M-F 9:00 am-3:30 pm
Camp Activities and Workshops
- Attitudes and Behaviors (How they See Me)
- College Readiness Workshop 101
- Enjoying Creekside -Trail Walk, Observing Nature, Group Chat/ Ice Cream
- First Aid Training and CPR (4 hour training)
- Goal Setting and Creating Mini Vision Boards
- Identifying Healthy and Toxic Friendships
- Heart Mapping
- Hiking and Fireside Chats
- How I see Me- Paint and Sip
- Journal on an Experience that changed you
- Learning the 5 Styles of Conflict Resolution
- Personal Development/ Love letter to self
- Replacement Behavior and Effective Communication
- Self Confidence and Social Challenges Girls face.
- Swimming
- Trail walk/ Scavenger Hunt
Enrollment
- Enrollment for Summer 2026 opens in February 2026
- For group enrollment or partnership inquiries, contact us via email: wjlminc@gmail.com
Parenting Skills Program
The VISA Rewards II Parenting Skills and Education Program center of attention is the well being and development of both mother and child. The program teaches and supports young pregnant mothers, teen mothers, and new mothers with children ages 0-5. Our approach is focusing on the well-being and development of both mother and child through 6 week self-paced online classes that encompass subject matter to include: Early Childhood Development, Financial Planning and Literacy, Mental Health for Mom’s, Nutritional Values for Mother and Child, and Postpartum Education. Upon successful completion of classes participants have the opportunity to gain reward points which is applied to their visa card, provided by Women Just Like Me. Participants can receive baby and maternity products, household goods, or vouchers towards living expenses.
COACHING & MENTORING
Over 87% of our participants complete the VISA program and they return as mentors and advisors to new participants. They give back by investing their time, sharing experiences, and working with mentee in setting goals and help them to stay on track to accomplishing. Participants that express a need for mental and emotional challenges are encouraged to seek help from our mental health professionals, such as social workers and counselors who are partners of the organization.
The foundation of this program encourages girls and young women to think about their actions, to make smart decisions before stupid decisions are made. The sessions are 45 minutes, 1-1 mentoring that takes place in a safe and secure environment. The sessions are confidential (unless the child express wanting to cause harm to herself or others), mentors are non-judgmental so mentee’s don’t feel shame or embarrassment when sharing personal information, ideas, and experiences.
